Success is often built on reflexive habit of saying yes to opprtunities that come our way. We are hungry for any chance to prove ourselves and when we are presented one , we take it , even - or especially - if it seems daunting.
(a lesson i learned years ago was to say yes to opportunities that made me feel nervous because the anxiety was a sign that i'd learn something useful )
we may also tend to say "yes" out of fear that turning down an opportunity even once send message that we are not interested and we'll stop getting additional chances in the future . but success tends to attract bigger and better opprtunities that present themselves . we often try to do this without saying no definitively- We still want to keep our option open . Inevitably ,though this results in a lack of clarity and over commitment , and we wind up disappointing people , exhausting ourselves or simply failing .
to prevent this we need to learn to say no gracefully but firmly , maintaining the relationship while making it clear that this is one opportunity we are choosing not to pursue. And sucess in this effort is founded on the ability to manage the emotions that come up when we close a door or extinguish an option.
Unfortunately I learned this year only how to say no , but my role was- i was the one jackass to whoom a beauty with differnce told ...... NO....!!!
IN SHORT - AADMI KO TARRAKI KARNI HO TO USSE NAA BOLNA AANA CHAHIYE.>>>
(a lesson i learned years ago was to say yes to opportunities that made me feel nervous because the anxiety was a sign that i'd learn something useful )
we may also tend to say "yes" out of fear that turning down an opportunity even once send message that we are not interested and we'll stop getting additional chances in the future . but success tends to attract bigger and better opprtunities that present themselves . we often try to do this without saying no definitively- We still want to keep our option open . Inevitably ,though this results in a lack of clarity and over commitment , and we wind up disappointing people , exhausting ourselves or simply failing .
to prevent this we need to learn to say no gracefully but firmly , maintaining the relationship while making it clear that this is one opportunity we are choosing not to pursue. And sucess in this effort is founded on the ability to manage the emotions that come up when we close a door or extinguish an option.
Unfortunately I learned this year only how to say no , but my role was- i was the one jackass to whoom a beauty with differnce told ...... NO....!!!
IN SHORT - AADMI KO TARRAKI KARNI HO TO USSE NAA BOLNA AANA CHAHIYE.>>>
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