Let my Country Awake... !!!

     When I was 12 years old,  Dad gave me a magazine and told me select the best quote from the book.If you find out the Quote exactly that one which i selected i will give you a  Parle Kismi Bar. In such remote place where i was living, Kismi Bar was the costlier gift forget about Dairy Milk and Pizza o Spaghetti. I was too excited and read the whole book finally i found one Quote. I almost ran towards Dad, he was in Farm almost 2 n half km from home,i took my bicycle. When i reach their  I saw , my Dad was surrounded with few people, and a woman was crying, she was telling about her Life story, her husband was also in frustrated mood. My Dad saw me n called me and told me to look at cattle feed for Ox, for a moment i got angry on him. After few minutes i saw that everyone left the place everyone was praising my dad and went there home. Dad asked me "so Finally you found your best quote from the book " I was in angry mood and replied to dad, "yes !" --- "n what is it!" again Dad. i started,

                    "Where the Mind is without fear 

                     and the head is held high,

                    where knowledge is free.

                    where the world has not been broken up into fragments

                    by narrow domestic walls .

                   Where words come out from the depth of truth,

                   where tireless striving stretches its arms toward perfection.

                   where the clear stream of reason has not lost it's way

                   into the dreary desert sand of dead habit.

                   where the mind is led forward by thee 

                   into ever widening thought and action.

                   in to that heaven of freedom , MY FATHER, 

                  LET MY COUNTRY AWAKE !!

     Dad was totally shocked with my selection and asked me "why u selected this quote"...Still i was in angry mood and said "because i felt this quote is written on you only and at end its also written that "Oh my father, let my country awake.." " and suddenly my anger reached to top gear "who the hell are you, why you are doing so much social service. does anybody will help you in future, all are bastards, and to be frank before i came here i selected different quote but now looking at you. my guess is, quote selected by you must be this one....!!

    Dad was totally surprised by my answer and replied...Ha Ha Ha .... genius, superb, Excellent !!

Again Dad started "my boy let me tell you one thing- before knowing your answer , I decided that as u came  here by cycle from home, whatever your quote i will accept it. But from your skills you proved that you are enough able to solve your owns problem, But just answer my question "these ppl dont have much expectation in life, they just look at you as a hope that u will solve their problems !! 

            Still i was firm on my opinion  "but why You? "

Dad replied   "come with me, lets go home keep your cycle here, This time i was in dammn angry mood "what the hell is going on,

Was that punishment ?  

Was that Revenge ?

what was going in his mind? 

When i reached home i saw again some ppl were waiting for my dad, "HOLY CRAP!!!"

 this time an old man n woman with wet eyes talking to my dad...from their conversation i understood they were parents of that married woman i saw in farm..

   ""she is my only daughter, 6 years before my property was almost 30 lakhs, i sold 3/4 property for my son's education. my son completed his engineering n left us alone,when we went to meet him "he told his wife that we are workers". this year i gave almost 5 lakhs as dowry to daughters family now again they are forcing my daughter to bring money, 

   "I don't have words to thank u. By only words, skills and with your knowledge , you saved three life's , my next step was this ----"      and he showed a bottle of pesticides. 

I was totally embarrassed, for a while i was looking at my dad proudly , and he told me that time ..

 I Agree that God gifted you with certain skills,but its not to use the way you want . always.its not necessary to keep hope from " Father " to awake this country.. remember not only you, everyone on this earth is having guts to free this world from narrow domestic walls...after all for someone like that old man his wife n daughter is the country, is the world. !!!

that discussion-that knwledge was free, was with mind without fear, full of truth, thoughts n action and i was awaking in to that heaven of freedom ......... !!! 

Machine Men, Machine Mind, You are not machine !!!

     when i look in to those days , not much just 8-9 years before, i found  those catchy unforgettable moments between boyfriend and girlfriend,when role of whatts app played by the pen cap, when the role of first date played by 'PRASHAD' in Ganesh Temple in Industrial Visit, when- feeling shared by kiss, played by- the  feeling when you propose someone in Chemistry Laboratory by creating 'I LOVE YOU' on litmus paper. How romantic it was !!! now even how much we try to update ourselves but that amazing feeling we will miss forever. 

         Its not only about Love but Whenever i look back to my life, those days when 'mobile' was oil for me used for Cycle Chain., when even a 25 p's postcard sent by relative o two and half page later with full of design and emotion sent by sister was giving Happiness of life.Now when in today's world when i am having smartphone where i can see all movements, I am having computer where i can talk to my cousin brother ,his children's to whom am not even seen before.

       In today's world where we are having thousands of friends on social sites but how many of them are really your friends ?            how many of them are really in contact with you not by phone, by heart ? actually  we are loosing the reason behind such invention's . it was invented for making human life flexible but we are too smart we made our life like machine,typically like coded programs, automated machinery's- where we daily work with protocols, we made our access in each other's life limited, started to think like machine. .   we invented machine's , we are developing various Technics but Even though ""TECHNOLOGY MADE US NEARER WE ARE FAR FROM ETCH OTHER"". I believe that in Next few years there will be one day when Machine will develop men !!!

        Let me tell you about a speech given by Charlie Chaplin in His movie 'The Great Dictator'. 

             "" we want live by each other's happiness n not by the each other's misery. we don't want to hate and despise one another. In this world there is room for everyone. And the good earth is rich and can provide for everyone. The way of life can be beautiful but we have lost the way.

             Greed has poisoned Men's souls, has barricaded the world with hate, has goose-stepped us into misery and bloodshed. we developed speed, but we have shut ourselves in. Machinery that gives abundance has left us in want. Our knowledge has made us cynical.we think to much and feel too little. The very nature of these invention's cries out for universal brotherhood for the goodness in men for the unity of us all. 

Just tell yourself - tell you what to do- what to think n what to feel. Don't give yourselves to these unnatural men-Machine Men with Machine mind n machine hearts. You are not machine's you are not cattle ! you are men you have the love of humanity in your hearts ! 

 

words which told in the year...1960....how true they are....n where we are..???                                                                    

LIFE is all abt marketing where u sale urself

                When i was just of 25 Mins,some one whispered in my ears .." hey you naughty boy, don't look at nurse she is 25 years and few days n hours elder than you, don't start flirting with her." and what a miracle that beauty (i heard from my mom.. :-p ) came to me. "she kissed me !!! "   it is an interesting fact that when you are little the big girl kiss you and when you are big , the little girls kiss you !!!     jokes apart. 

         In present world , when i look at everyone, all are busy in marketing themselves, when your mom,dad talk about you in front of relatives they make you the emperor of the earth, even when you met first time to a diva or dude, that moment suddenly your blood runs with thousand miles speed overtakes many blockages in your vain......why ? what we call it as ? its nothing but your natural marketing skills ...at that moment your mom dad nothing but try to sale you. o you trying to sale yourself. 

               But the fact is not you sold yourself or not. because as soon as you came in front of some one..their brain captured your multiple  images but its just waiting in which costume its going to fit you.... N that's where your job comes you have to misguide the brain of next person !!! MISGUIDE...... confused ?

         yes !!! misguide because marketing is not about telling what you are ? everyone do that then what you are doing different...! 

       let me tell you a story of a mechanical engineer i met him infront goddess mahalaxmi temple in kolhapur , he was selling his owns innovated , manufactured product . the cost of that product was just 5o bucks (look at the guts as an engineer selling as local salesman like 'bhajivala' n like 'fruit saler' . )

      when i asked him about his product , he told me that "i just fallowed the story about stone , a normal stone how became a stone first time thrown in sea to build "ramsetu" by raam ." after a short pause he again started .... " i wasted two years in searching job after my engineering after that i decided to start own's business... and from that moment a single 10 sq.cm's metal sheet changed in to this product"

       But you know what - that product was just looking like capital "I" where at both end it was threaded in such a way that if you want to chop boiled potato you can chop it in design. (generally there is no need to design the potatos anyways it is going into your tummy) but he  was marketing that product in such a way that the product is costlier than grinder . then n then only i understood that  marketing is not about what it is , but it is all about how you fitt them into brain of person oppoite to you.

     Now let me tell you a poor person's  story, he was in love of a beauty, and was dammn serious about it.but there was one another competitor to him. that poor person was fully honest with the girl where as his compititor was just marketing himself how dud he is !! unfortunately that poor person was allrounder in all field but was not interested to market himself..... finaly after few days result came out of that story....... n hope you understood the result of that story....

               from that moment to onward's i understood one thing that Life is all about market yourself, creating demand for you in people's mind . fuck the all truth in you all honest things in you !

 market yourself hard as much as possible !!!  even lord krishna marketed himself as he said..."whenever asur attacks in this universe i will be there to save you all " and we started praising him from that moment

            

SAY no if you expect...... YES from your life

              Success is often built on reflexive habit of saying yes to opprtunities that come  our way. We are hungry for any chance to prove ourselves and when we are presented one , we take it , even - or especially - if it seems daunting.

                               (a lesson i learned years ago was to say yes to opportunities that made me feel nervous because the anxiety was a sign that i'd learn something useful )
        
                     we may also tend to say "yes" out of fear that turning down an opportunity even once send message that we are not interested and we'll stop getting additional chances in the future . but success tends to attract bigger and better opprtunities that present themselves . we often try to do this without saying no definitively- We still want to keep our option open . Inevitably ,though this results in a lack of clarity and over commitment , and we wind up disappointing people , exhausting ourselves or simply failing . 
                 to prevent this we  need to learn to say no gracefully but firmly , maintaining the relationship while making it clear that this is one opportunity we are choosing not to pursue. And sucess in this effort is founded on the ability to manage the emotions that come up when we close a door or extinguish an option.

               Unfortunately I learned this year only how to say no , but my role was- i was the one jackass to whoom a beauty with differnce told ...... NO....!!!

 IN SHORT - AADMI KO TARRAKI KARNI HO TO USSE NAA BOLNA AANA CHAHIYE.>>>

        

FUCK THE MACHINE

     

           Unless and until you come across some interesting facts about your life , you behave like a common man. but as soon as when your family or the nearest person of your heart tell you such bullshit stories about you for example like in old hindi  movies where lalita pawar or such kind of woman who's  playing the role of bitchy women tells Vijay o ramesh (mostly Amitabh bachhan ,dev aanand )with full volume increasing bass n treble " you are not my son,you found me on steps of shiv mandir "  o  babita or nargis tells with full emotional atyachaar ... " your dad ruined my life "..... n yesssssssss here we goes......... our hero a simple common man turns into super power. what u say to such moments a heartbreaking , a blaast , a shock, ???

      Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.............

                

          it is just a trigger from which time you change your beliefs, your values, i guess change is the most power full world . it makes revolution, it makes revaluation and it decides where are you and what are the stratagies for the next few days , your presentation and finally your destination . then why we are taking change so seriously in bloody fucking serious mood......  

            gotcha !!! 

                           bcoz of the machine which continously pumping and transporting a liquid to overall and most important thing that it transport that energy material to the main central processing unit (brain) . Now even we know that our CPU is working under that fucking machine how can you avoid the instructions given !! Hence in short  you need again a master reset which clears cache and when it triggers.......

    DUNIYA KI KOI TAKAT AAJ MUJHE INSAAF DILANE SE NAHI ROKEGI ,